The Cosmic Joke of Dream Realization (And how to keep it from sabotaging YOUR dreams)

If you had all the time and money you could ever want…what would YOU do?

It’s easy to feel like there’s not enough of either and, for many, it’s what stops dreams dead in their tracks.

Practicality & dreaming often seem totally incompatible – a dreaming DUEL instead of a dreaming DUO!

The trick is to set that aside for now, and answer this: What would YOU do if you had all the time and money you could ever want?

Give yourself permission to just imagine it.

What comes up for you?

If you’re having trouble answering this question, or if your mind goes instead to all the reasons that what you want feels impossible, irresponsible, or unrealistic … Consider this:

“If your dream wasn’t already real inside you, you couldn’t even dream it.”        ~ Gloria Steinem

Most people think that the way to realize a dream is to figure out HOW you’re going to make it happen.

How you’re going to bring it to fruition…

How you’re going to raise the money…

How you’re going to schedule it…

How you’re going to form a team…

And on it goes.

All “the Hows” can perplex and even sabotage the realization of your dreams.

At Create Your Life! this speaks to what we refer to as “The Cosmic Joke of Dream Realization.” That is, that HOW will not show itself or become available to you until AFTER you commit and bravely declare what you want.  (hahaha)

In other words: Before you can draw “how” to you, you must first declare “what”.

You see … if you WAIT to commit to what you want until you know all the “Hows”, then you’re going to find yourself waiting a VERY l-o-n-g time.  Perhaps you already feel like you’ve been waiting too long!

sometimes the biggest risk

Here’s an alternative to all that:

Acknowledge the fact that putting the “what” before the “how” can feel risky.

Yes indeed it can.

BUT – don’t stop there!

It’s also SUPER IMPORTANT to acknowledge that the biggest risk … is not taking one at all.  

Studies show that at end of life people regret what they DIDN’T do much more than what they DID do.  

5 Powerful “No Regrets” Journaling Questions for You:

  • What’s at risk if I DON’T take action and move forward on my dream?
  • What’s the risk of always wondering?
  • What might the impact be on my happiness – even on my health?
  • How confident and proud of myself will I be if I DON’T explore the possibility?
  • And, lastly, how will I feel about always wondering about what could have been?

More often than not, when there’s an honest assessment of the risks of staying exactly where you ARE … the costs of NOT finding out, often *far outweigh* the potential costs and risks of going for it!

The real dreams don’t go away. And they won’t.

Maybe you’ve begun before, but you started and stopped, started and stopped, started and stopped. Maybe you’ve noticed that despite the advice of others warning you against following those “crazy dreams” that they don’t go away – no matter how hard you work to sweep them under the rug!

That’s a sign of your inner wisdom.

Follow your dreams. They really do know the way.

Take The Next Step:

Customized support and our proven step-by-step process can make all the difference in how quickly you live YOUR dreams. Submit your answers to our Dream Igniting Questions today, and as my GIFT to you, we’ll schedule a time to connect for a complementary Dream Discovery tele-session and explore together how Create Your Life! can best support YOU in accelerating your own inspired, joyful journey. You’ll be amazed what can happen in just one call!

Listen to that inner wisdom. Stop questioning yourself and spending a lot of energy spinning your wheels, feeling overwhelmed and uninspired, and trying to figure out the right thing to do, or moving slower than you’d like. We’ll work together to create a clear plan of action to successfully bridge the gap for you between where you are and where you want to be.  I can’t wait!

About Tara Sage Steeves

Master Coach, Possibility Queen, Gypsy Entrepreneur, Author, Speaker, Nomad, Salsera, Life Hack Pro, Owner of two location-independent companies: Create Your Life! & Nomadic Leaders

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